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Principles cant be applied to judge people

February 5, 2008

There is a proverb that a person can be judged by the friends he/she has. But how far does this hold true? Science says that “like poles repel each other and unlike poles attract each other” Doesn’t this principle apply to our lives? Does having a friend, who has certain bad qualities mean that we are also like that? Or does having a very good person as a friend necessarily mean that we are similar? This logic leads to the conclusion that the above mentioned proverb doesn’t hold true.

The big question to be answered now is, whether a person can be really judged using any parameter? How can anyone judge a person by a few meetings? Or by asking a few questions? In this 21st century where everyone is concerned with their own interests and get along in their lives with a plastic smile glued to their face how can we judge a person? How can we come to a conclusion that a person is doing something all by himself or is he doing the act coz he’s expecting something in return. And moreover what one considers good might turn out to be bad for someone else. Then how can we judge that person based on his acts??

It’s also said that time brings about change in a person. It means that the behavior of a person is not consistent and keeps on changing with time. How then can we expect a person to remain the same as the one whom we “judged”?

All this discussion results in only one conclusion: that a person can neither be judged by his actions nor by his behavior. How then can he be judged? I get no answers..

And to all those who are reading it, don’t you try judging me by reading this post.

5 Comments leave one →
  1. anusha permalink
    February 8, 2008 7:26 PM

    ok miss mystery i wont judge u by only this blog but also some other things… and i dont think ppl really judge nebody.. they only try to kno the other person… so i am not gng 2 judge u but kno u as my frnd, as person, as a citizen and all…. neways i am not gng 2 write neother blog in a reply… gud gng

  2. vishnu permalink
    February 9, 2008 11:50 PM

    so.. wat we thought u r 4m these 4 years.. adi true/false chepadam probs anamata.. 😉

  3. stari permalink
    February 10, 2008 3:20 PM

    hey.. its absolutely true tht we cant judge ppl by applying some principles. But we can judge the ppl for the present. For the time we share with them. We shouldnt expect them to b the same thru out their life when change is so natural.

  4. sujay permalink
    February 14, 2008 9:45 PM

    dont try t ojudge people just hav fun with them.. i agree … this small lifetime is not enough to judge people 🙂

  5. Mystery permalink
    February 15, 2008 2:19 PM

    life is not as small as portrayed in films mate.. infact its too long.. each day teaches u so many lessons..
    so we tend to judge others

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